"Not everything that counts can be counted, and not everything that can be counted counts." --Albert Einstein
What do you count when you look at your children? (e.g. grades, developmental milestones, minutes without whining, hours without fighting...)
What things do you want your children to develop that cannot be counted? (e.g. love, joy, peace, patience, goodness, kindness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control...)